Date: 21.07.2015
Mummy had a
date with Nico~ Yes, only the two of us, on this date, for this short day trip!
All along,
as parents, we tend to give the best to our first kid. He/She has the
first-hand clothes, first-hand shoes, first-hand in everything he/she uses. To
the kid, everything is so neat and beautiful, everything seems to have Daddy
and Mummy by his/her side to accompany him/her on every moves.
However, I
might not be one of these parents as Kimi grew up at PIL’s house until he was
18 months. Some of his “First” I might have missed it. However, we give to him
the best that we can afford. Clean clothes, nice shoes, better school, and the
lists go on…. And this is the advantage of a First Child at home! To us, he/she
is our everything! We provide to him what we feel are the best for him.
Then comes
to Kid No.2! We gave birth to Nico... With two kids, expenses rise up, the time
needs to spend with them double up, housework never-ending, etc… Daddy and
Mummy work harder so that our living expenses are covered, so that, we can
provide to both the kids, a better living environment. At times, no doubt, we
neglected the No.2. Nico was sent back from PIL’s house to us when he was
almost 3 years at a much later age than Kimi. So, we also missed out a few of
his “First”. The time spent for him was lesser too. For this, I always feel the guilt. I wish I can give him more time, more love, more patience...!
On this day,
Mummy had decided to do something different with Nico, which I did before with
Kimi some years back ~A short
day trip for Nico with Mummy~! As Nico’s speech is still slow, so
some words or things he still cannot express himself yet. All I get from his
answer on where to go was to SIT BUS! So Mummy fulfilled his request on this!
And he was really very excited throughout his journey in the bus. Glad that he
enjoyed it very much!
A great
experience for Nico… Sweet Memories for the little Growing Up Boy! Mummy
captured his different expressions during the Happy Outing with him~ Hope he
has a GREAT DAY out. Do remember this always… Mummy LOVES You!
Nico @ 3
Years & 7 Months+
